Not Your Usual “Controversial” Parenting Choices

We’ve all heard it before: “I’m controversial because I only feed my kids organic food,” or “I’m controversial because I won’t let anyone kiss my baby.” But my list? It’s a little different, and I think you’ll find it unexpected. I’m that parent who somehow manages to be both an overachiever and super lazy at the same time. So when things slip through the cracks, I just shrug and think, “Oh well.”

I Allow Eating on the Couch

Eating on the couch is one of life’s sweetest pleasures. Why wouldn’t we want to enjoy a snack while watching TV? Sure, it might leave crumbs or the occasional stain, but that’s what vacuums and wet wipes are for. Our millennial green velvet couch can handle it—and so can we!

I Let My Kid Draw on the Walls

Before you think I’m crazy, hear me out! I do limit it to certain walls and pieces of furniture. Our home is our sanctuary, a space for us to feel comfortable and express ourselves. A little creative freedom on the walls makes the house feel more like our home.

I Don’t Force Outside Time

Australia’s weather is unpredictable—it can be hot, cold, and everything in between. But one constant is the sun, and while I know sunlight is important, I’m more concerned about taking care of our skin. If my little one is happy being indoors, crafting or playing creatively, that’s fine by me. Of course, as soon as “outside” is mentioned, we’re usually out the door in a flash.

These aren’t earth-shattering revelations, but they capture the overall vibe of my parenting style. Sometimes, I sweat the small stuff, and sometimes, it’s perfectly fine to relax and let life unfold.